Hi guys!! once again I got an interesting topic to share with you . So tell me (referring to married couples now); Do you get to wonder why a lot of marriages don't do well? Do you think married couples put in their best to have a blissful marriage? Well, I can't really answer that question for you, because you best know the level of input you put into your marriage. I can tell you one thing though, there's more to marriage than just loving each other, having kids, and calling yourselves MR & MRS. Also, it is important to understand that both parties need to play a role and I mean both the husband and the wife, to have a successful and blissful marriage. Obviously, I'm sure you already know that there are many ways to make a marriage successful, but in this blog, I've listed only 5 tips that always work. So keep on reading and be blessed.
1. GIVE YOURSELVES MUTUAL RESPECT:
It is quite understanding that a husband and wife come from two different backgrounds, meaning that their approach to life would most likely differ. So when you get married; all that is compromised, and because you love each other, there's persistence. So it is important that you value both of your emotions, feelings and equally respect each other mutually in order to have a happy and healthy marriage.
2. KEEP THE FIRE OF ROMANCE BURNING:
Now this is so important; for both of you to enjoy your marriage, that romance, that spark has got to be kept burning. Don't ever let the spark of romance between you two die. Always ensure you both express your feelings towards each other at all times. Try out new things, go on dates even when there is no occasion, be spontaneous. It will only add spice to your relationship and strengthen you both.
3. DO NOT NAG EACH OTHER:
In recent times, research has shown that a lot of marriages fail as a result of constant nagging from both parties. Now, the question I want to ask is; If you knew you were going to complain about almost everything he does, then why did you marry him? or vice versa for the guys. Good question huh? Marriage is a bond, I'm sure we all agree, so when you get married, be ready to to do a lot of tolerating on both sides. Now if you love someone dearly and the person does something you don't like and it's worth overlooking; You don't need to start nagging as if you are perfect yourself, instead be polite and respectful, act maturely and show some concern. It always does the trick, your spouse as a result of your mature response would not have any other choice than to change his or her attitude/character all to please you. So be wise, stop the nagging and enjoy your marriage.
4. BE HONEST ABOUT EVERYTHING:
When you get married, you need to get rid of every skeleton you may have in your cupboard in quote. Your spouse should be your closest confidant. Be honest about your past life, share everything, so as to be bring about complete trust, confidence, and faith in each other. Remember, whatever you do, in one way or the other will always have an effect on your spouse, so do not hide anything from each other. Like the saying goes thus "Honesty is the best policy" so complete honesty in a marriage, means a successful marriage.
5. BE A TEAM IN ALL THAT YOU DO:
The Bible talks about when a man is joined to his wife, the two become one. That is so true, meaning that they become a team, not individual players. Share responsibilities among each other to make things easier and balanced for both of you. Let not one partner leave the responsibility of catering for the family to the other partner,it could be really frustrating and discouraging.
So there you go people, very simple and practicable isn't it? Having a successful and happy marriage depends on you both, so make that effort today and be happy.
Now to the Ladies and the Wives out there, don't think you would be left out. You also ought to know that your Husbands equally yearn to be cared for and loved just like you do.
Men with all their masculinity are like babies, who also need a tender touch, and for you to have your man or rather your husband all to yourself, be happy and have a great marriage, you need to know those specials ways to his heart; this is where I come in.
Contained in this blog are 5 special ways that will most definitely make your husband not just pleased, but always happy with you his wife.
1. LOVE HIM UNCONDITIONALLY:
As a wife, your husband is all you got after your immediate family. The day you got married, you became one, so it is important that you love him no matter the condition, always remind him of how much you love him, by showing him in every way.
2. SUPPORT HIM FINANCIALLY:
There is nothing more pleasing to a man, than to have a wife who is always there for him financially and emotionally. You wives need to understand that there will always come a time when your husband may not be buoyant financially. At such period, your love,trust, and understanding will be tested. You need to show your husband that your wedding vows mean everything to you. Show him you understand what he's going through and that you're always ready to be of support to him. By doing this, you not only make him happy immensely with you, but you also gain his re-commitment and love for you.
3. DON'T BE RIGID; TRY NEW THINGS WITH YOUR HUSBAND:
I got to tell you this ladies, men are moved by what they see, so you have to make an effort to stay sexy for your husband always; let him see you as appealing and attractive as you were before marriage, because the truth is, men always want to be reminded all the time that they got a sexy and pretty wife in every area; it brings pride and joy to them. Also, take my advice and loose yourself, try new things with him, be adventurous, go a little wild (not freaky though). It will get him excited and more committed to you. Trust me I know.
4.BE A GREAT COOK:
Now this fourth step shouldn't be new to you wives and ladies out there. So tell me, have you heard of this popular saying? You probably must have. anyways it goes thus "THE WAY TO A MAN'S HEART IS HIS STOMACH" well if you haven't heard of it before, then I must tell you that it's so true. Men love good food no doubt about that; and it only makes it all better when you as the wife is skilled in various dishes. So if you're a lady reading this blog, and you're probably used to eating out with your man, in this case your husband; you don't do much cooking. I advice that you stop and make a change else it won't take too long before your husband gets tired of not eating fresh home cooked meals, and do you know what might happen next? he'll begin to wonder why he married you as his wife. So do the wise thing, improve on your cooking abilities, try to learn new dishes, and you'd be surprised at how much love your husband will shower on you every now and then, that I bet you.
5. SHOW HIM ALSO THAT HE'S VERY MUCH APPRECIATED AND LOVED:
Now as a wife, you need to understand that your husband does everything he does for you and the family. For a man to be at his best for his family, he needs to be constantly shown that he's very much appreciated. So how would you go about this? very simple! start by surprising him with a nice gift when he least expects it. Secondly, cook for him his favorite dish, when all he's expecting is to eat something else after work. Tell him directly how much he means to you and how much you love him. Men like being told directly to their face how much they mean to their wives and families. So my ladies reading this, you do this and watch your husbands glow like never before as well increase in his duties as a husband and father.
So there you are ladies, 5 special ways to please and make your husband happy. So if you want to have a great marriage with your husband? take these steps and I assure you, you would only be glad you came across this blog.
If you got any comments or questions? feel free to drop them here.
