FOR THE HUSBANDS OUT THERE: 5 SPECIAL WAYS TO MAKE YOUR WIFE HAPPY

A lot of marriages today experience ups and downs, due to the fact that both parties especially the men are completely ignorant of what their wives want. We need to understand that marriage is a God ordained institution designed to be enjoyed by both the Husband and the wife and not to be endured by either of them.
If you're a married man, newly wed, about to get married, or you think of getting married someday and you're reading this blog; you need to understand that women are romantic beings by nature. God made the woman with a deep crave for love, so as a husband, your duty is to constantly assure your wife of your undying love.
Here are 5 special ways all you men and husbands out there need to employ to make your wives happy. Trust me, from experience, this would definitely work.

1. MAKE AN EFFORT TO ALWAYS LEAVE HER SPECIAL NOTES:
There is nothing more pleasing and comforting to know that you're always on your husband's mind. Most Wives want to be assured that they are all that matter to their Husbands. So to make her feel rest assured that you're always thinking about her; leave notes occasionally when you go to work on places where you're sure she would find them later. Also, with today's technology you could send romantic text messages, or even an email, all just to reassure her.


2. GIVE HER SURPRISES WHEN SHE LEAST EXPECTS IT:

I have to give this to you, women love pleasant surprises, be it in any form. One of such surprises is taking her unawares, she could be in another room, sewing, reading, doing anything, or even in the kitchen cooking, not expecting you. You would then rush in, give her a tight hug, kiss her and tell her how much you love her and how much she means to you. This act would come as a shock, but I tell you, she would be the happiest of all. You could also buy her gifts occasionally, don't wait till it's her birthday, valentines day, or any other special occasion. Surprise her with a pretty gift when she's not expecting anything, this will reassure her that she means a lot to you. 


3.DO CHORES AROUND THE HOUSE WITHOUT BEING TOLD:
In today's society, a lot more women are working full time jobs, besides the job of being a wife and a mother. Even though it is the responsibility of the wife to take care of household chores like laundry and so on; you as the husband ought to recognize the pressure involved, the hard work; so it would only be fair or rather loving of you to once in a while, do some chores to help out. Now tell me, what woman wouldn't appreciate coming home to a clean house, where most of the chores or all of it are done.


4. PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR WIFE AND LISTEN:
Often times most women just want to talk and be listened to when they have problems and not have it fixed like most men do when their wives complain of one thing or the other. Also, women love attention and do not like being ignored. So when next your wife wants to talk to you about something, be it important or not, make sure you give her a 100% attention, and not stare at the TV or do something else. Respond positively and always show that you're interested in whatever she has to say. When you do this, you are only telling her that she means more to you than every other thing around you.


5. TAKE HER OUT ON A DATE:
These days a lot of married men overlook this important part of marriage. Before a couple get married, they spend time to go on dates, so as to get to know more about each other, and decide if it's best to spend the rest of their lives together . After marriage, most men see it as unnecessary to plan dates with their wives, for they feel, "why take her on a date, we're married now, I know all there is to know about her" moreover you don't have that time anymore. Now this is a wrong notion; every woman wants to feel special at all times, no matter how long you've been married, your wife will always yearn for you to see her as being special . So make out time, plan dates with her, make it special by taking her to those places you used to go to while courting. It would only bond you guys together much more and make her happy.

 Finally, all you husbands and yet to be husbands need to know one thing; no one can replace your wife, she will always be yours. These steps may seem simple, but I'm very confident that if practiced, would only put more spark and even romance into your marriages. So do the right thing and make your wives happy.